12 Actions That Seem Harmless Now But Lead To Major Regrets Later

Never underestimate the potential negative impacts of these little actions.

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Going through the hustle and bustle of everyday life can be exhilarating and full of wonder, but most times, it is incredibly confusing. As we figure out how to go about our lives, many of us make spur-of-the-moment decisions that, at first, are seemingly harmless. However, what may appear like a trivial decision can have long-term consequences. If you don’t want to live life with significant regrets when you’re older, here are 12 actions you should avoid.

1. Being a slave to your job or career.

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We spend the majority of our adult lives at work, and in a culture where having a strong work ethic is encouraged, pushing yourself to be as productive as possible seems normal. However, neglecting your personal life can not only lead to burnout, but also cause you to miss important moments with your family and friends that you will never get back.

2. Not putting the effort in with friends, and allowing them to drift away.

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As life goes on, everyone goes through a multitude of changes—new jobs, new relationships, new families, moving to new places, and so on. Because of these changes, it’s difficult to stay connected to the people we care about. But choosing to neglect these relationships can eventually foster feelings of loneliness that could have been avoided by putting in a little more effort.

3. Fretting over every decision, big and small.

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Our lives are filled with tons of major and minor decisions that we make every day—no wonder life can be so overwhelming! Telling yourself that you’re okay with not making a decision right away can feel comfortable, but in reality, it can lead to missed opportunities that you’ll look back on with regret.

4. Overusing social media.

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Nowadays, social media is everywhere. With it comes the pressure to document everything, or to scroll through it as a way to stay connected with others. Despite some of its benefits, using social media excessively takes us away from quality time that we could have spent with family and friends face-to-face.

5. Having no plan for your finances.

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If you don’t know the first thing about savings or investments, it makes sense not to want to think about finances. Although you imagine you have plenty of time to save for the future, it’s always better to start sooner rather than later. The earlier you start putting money aside, the more you will accumulate over time—meaning less money problems in the future.

6. Spending recklessly.

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One major aspect of financial planning includes keeping track of what you spend. If you like to “treat yourself” with coffee from your favorite cafe or dining out instead of eating at home, it may feel like an insignificant purchase. But if you’re not careful, habitual overspending can put a strain on your finances and hurt your ability to save for future life goals like buying a house.

7. Shying away from difficult conversations to avoid conflict or stress.

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For some people, addressing problems with others is a walk in the park. But for many of us, confrontation is terrifying and stressful. It’s understandable to want to evade tough conversations because of that fear. However, this fear will only hold you back by creating misunderstandings and feelings of resentment that will lead to larger problems in the future.

8. Holding onto grudges.

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It’s normal to feel betrayed or wronged when someone hurts your feelings, even if they didn’t mean to do so. However, holding onto anger towards someone long after they have apologized to you (or even if they don’t apologize) will only damage your relationship with the people you love. Besides, we can’t change the past, but we can change how we react to others in the future.

9. Staying in your comfort zone.

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Is there a goal that you have always wanted to achieve but decided not to go for because you were too afraid? Maybe it involved applying for your dream job or traveling the world. No matter what your dream may be, it’s better to try and fail than to not try at all and end up with a lifetime full of regrets.

10. Taking all the positives for granted.

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When life gets tough, it’s easier to dwell on the negatives and put the people and experiences that enrich our lives to one side. But by taking the good aspects of your life for granted, you will not only diminish the quality of your relationships, but also get stuck in a pessimistic mindset that will leave you bitter and cynical in later life.

11. Worrying too much about what other people think.

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We only get one opportunity at living life, so why waste it trying to make other people happy? At the end of the day, the most important thing in your life should be yourself. By putting your own needs last for the sake of others’ approval or validation, you will end up abandoning your most authentic self.

12. Putting your health and well-being last on your list.

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When you’re young, it’s easy to ignore your health for the sake of feeling good in the moment. Who wouldn’t want to eat burgers or ice cream for every meal? But over time, choosing to skip workouts or indulge in unhealthy foods can create a snowball effect, leading to significant health issues that could have been avoided with healthier choices.