13 rare traits that separate highly intelligent people from the rest (Genius alert!)

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What traits do intelligent people often share?

Intelligence can take many different forms, all of which are equally valid and valuable. Traditionally, however, the word intelligence is associated with someone who is quick to learn, to take in new information and put that information to use.

Read on for some of the traits that someone who’s exceptionally intelligent in the traditional sense of the word might have.

1. They know they don’t know it all.

Someone who is genuinely intelligent accepts that they will always have more to learn, and that they won’t always be right.

They might, in general, have more of the answers than most people. But they won’t feel the need to show off about it, as their recognition of the gaps in their own knowledge keeps them humble and means they keep their own abilities in perspective.

2. They’re disorganized.

Many highly intelligent people are a disaster when it comes to keeping things tidy or organizing their time. Maybe their bedroom or study is a mess, or they always seem to be jumping between tasks, rather than working logically.

No one is entirely sure why disorganization and intelligence so often go hand in hand, but a highly intelligent person might tell you that it’s because they’ve got too much to think about to worry about keeping things tidy.

3. They learn from their mistakes and move on.

Highly intelligent people tend to understand that they will always make mistakes, but there’s no point in dwelling on them.

They will analyze the mistakes they make, consider what they can learn from them, and put them behind them, not allowing them to hold them back.

4. They know how to adapt.

The more intelligent amongst us know that to succeed in life you have to be flexible and adaptable. Being stubbornly set in your ways can mean you find it hard to rise to new challenges.

Those that are very intelligent tend to do well in any situation, whether it’s a new living environment or work environment. Rather than complaining about changes, they think about how they can best adapt to the new scenario.  

5. They’re always curious.

Some of the greatest discoveries in our history have been the result of people who are just so curious that they flatly refuse to give up. They always want to know the answers.

They’re fascinated with details that other people might think are pretty insignificant. They tend to be more open to new experiences and willing to try new things.

6. They see life as one long lesson.

The highly intelligent realize that learning definitely doesn’t end once you’ve graduated. The classroom is only the beginning.

They know that life is one long learning experience, and they love absorbing as much information as possible, at all times. 

7. They’re open-minded.

The fact that smart people realize they don’t know everything tends to mean they never close themselves off to new ideas and are always willing to learn from others.

Their beliefs are in-flux, not set in stone, and they will listen to other people’s opinions and arguments. Often, you might find them sitting on the fence on a particular topic until they’re presented with enough evidence to come to a conclusion.

8. They’re funny.

Intelligent people aren’t always the ones that gather a laughing audience around them at a party, but they’re funny in their own way.

They’re the ones that can come up with wry, insightful remarks that will always make you laugh at the drop of a hat. They also tend to appreciate dark or complex humor, rather than simplistic or slapstick comedy.

9. They have self-control.

The highly intelligent tend to struggle less with self-control than many of us do. We all know that toxic relationships, certain foods, some behaviors, and all kinds of other things are bad for us.

But the more intelligent will avoid the behavior that they know will do them damage, whereas the less intelligent might not be able to resist the short-term gratification.

10. They’re okay with their own company.

Smart people can sometimes be less preoccupied with spending time socializing with others.

That’s not to say they’re anti-social, they just don’t mind being on their own, and it’s often when they’re alone that they have the space to let their thoughts run wild. In fact, they often crave that alone-time to be able to process those thoughts and hatch new ideas.

11. They take calculated risks.

If someone is exceptionally intelligent, then they’re more likely to be willing to take risks, but less likely to have those risks backfire.

You won’t see them staking all their money on a risky new venture, but they also won’t just accept the status quo to avoid taking a risk. They’ll take their time to assess whether the risk is really worth it, and although they might still come a cropper, they’ll get where they want to go in the end.

12. They don’t believe in luck.

Those that are intelligent understand how the world works.

They accept that privilege has a lot to do with how our lives unfold and can give certain people a huge leg up, but they also recognize that those who appear to be lucky have probably worked hard, planned well, and been open to new things.

They believe that by putting themselves out there and taking risks they create their own luck.   

13. They procrastinate.

Contrary to what you might think, those who are highly intelligent are often guilty of procrastination.

Sometimes it’s because they know they work better under pressure when a deadline is fast approaching. Sometimes it’s because they just can’t bring themselves to engage with a task they don’t find stimulating.   

Procrastination isn’t always a waste of time. It’s often time spent mulling over ideas and connecting the dots.

About The Author

Katie is a writer and translator with a focus on travel, self-care and sustainability. She's based between a cave house in Granada, Spain, and the coast of beautiful Cornwall, England. She spends her free time hiking, exploring, eating vegan tapas and volunteering for a local dog shelter.