10 Surprising Benefits Of Being Alone (That Most People Overlook)

There are so many benefits to spending time alone.

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Some people hate to be alone. Others prefer it that way. While it largely comes down to a matter of preference, it’s worth noting that spending time by yourself brings with it some very important benefits. Whether you enjoy your own company or not, you might want to consider spending more time alone because of the following reasons.

1. You can improve your self-awareness.

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Quiet time alone allows you to peacefully reflect on your thoughts, actions, and desires. Solitude allows you the freedom and space to better understand who you are without external influences clouding that image. You are free from distractions and can tune in to your most authentic self and listen to your most personal thoughts and feelings to figure out your truth.

2. You can foster and improve creativity.

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Solitude gives you the mental space to think freely, without interruption. Many people find their best ideas come to them when they’re alone because it’s easier to enter a flow state, where your thoughts and ideas smoothly move through your mind and your subconscious can surface important things freely.

3. You can improve your focus and productivity.

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Distraction kills focus and productivity. It prevents you from entering that flow state where you just get lost in your work, creative or not. Furthermore, it is hard for most people to transition from an interruption back into a work mindset. It can take upwards of 20 minutes to fully bring your mind back to the task at hand.

4. You can improve your emotional independence.

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Time alone forces you to rely more on yourself for happiness and comfort. As you develop these habits, you find yourself less in need of external validation or support from others. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t value outside support at all, but it’s best not to be dependent on it. And by cultivating self-reliance, you’ll be able to bounce back from difficulty more easily.

5. You can improve your problem-solving.

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Though many of us are not aware of it, the people around us affect our ability to think critically without interference from others’ opinions. Sometimes, you just need to be alone with your thoughts to better understand your own problems and find the solutions.

6. You experience increased mental clarity.

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Mental clarity can be hard to achieve when we are drowning in responsibilities and the opinions of others. It clutters the mind in a way that is hard to clear when you are having more and more added to it. Solitude allows you to prioritize what really matters and clear your mind. And a clear mind means better decisions and more confidence in those decisions.

7. You can strengthen your relationships.

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Spending time alone gives you space to better understand your needs and boundaries. That helps you form more balanced, healthier relationships with others. Furthermore, it’s good to have some space around the people you love so as to appreciate their closeness that much more. You will also find that you can tolerate your loved ones’ flaws more easily when you can escape from them once in a while.

8. You can use alone time to reduce stress.

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Life can be stressful. Alone time can be calming, providing the space you need to decompress and recharge before you dive back into the stresses of daily life. Social interaction, work, and responsibility all cause constant stress, and you need a way to manage it so that you don’t burn out. For some people, solitude is the only way they can process stress and calm down.

9. You have more control over your time.

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Being in a relationship or around other people requires you to take their time and needs into consideration. That’s not always a bad thing. However, being alone lets you decide how to spend your time, which can lead to more fulfillment as you are able to decide what you want to do, if you want to do anything at all.

10. You can heighten your sense of gratitude.

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Solitude gives you space to reflect and appreciate all that you have in life, even if it’s not much. That reflection allows you to be more aware of the positivity in your life, encouraging gratitude and mindfulness that can lead to greater internal peace. Gratitude also encourages kindness toward others and more enjoyment of the things that matter.