Date nights don’t have to be expensive.
Date nights should be a part of your relationship no matter how old you are or how long you’ve been with your partner.
But a lack of free time (if you have kids at home) or money can make it difficult to get out for one on a regular basis.
But fear not! You can have a romantic date night at home instead.
If you aren’t sure where to begin beyond dinner and a movie, check out some of these ideas for couples (married or otherwise) who want to enjoy a special evening in together.
1. Reminisce over old photos.
Reliving shared memories is a fantastic way to remind yourself of how much you love your partner.
And one of the easiest ways to spark those memories is to look at all the photos you have taken over the course of your relationship.
From vacation snaps to wedding photos and everything in between, browsing your albums (or digital collections) is a fun way to spend an evening.
If you have some home movies, watch them together and gasp at how young/different you look.
2. Draw or paint each other.
It doesn’t matter how artistic you are, getting some pencils or paints and creating a portrait of one another is a great way to spend an evening in with the person you love.
You can do this on multiple dates by choosing different styles each time such as surrealism, drawing caricatures, or turning your partner into a superhero.
3. Plan a trip, vacation, or adventure.
Discuss places that you’d each like to visit, settle on one, and then go about making that trip a reality.
Find places to stay, work out an itinerary of sights you’d like to see or things you’d like to do, and mark a date on your calendar of when you’re going to go.
The excitement of making travel plans together will make the evening fly by (pun intended!)
4. Watch concerts online.
Going to see some live music is a great date, but it’s not always possible. Concerts can be expensive and your favorite band might not always be touring.
But you’d be amazed at just how many full concerts you can watch on YouTube. And it makes for a completely different experience to simply listening to an album.
From huge global acts to smaller artists, stream them on your TV and crank up the volume to get the feeling of being there in the audience.
Singing and dancing are encouraged!
5. Hold a karaoke night.
Speaking of singing, why not belt out some of your favorite tunes with the help of… you guessed it, YouTube.
There are thousands upon thousands of songs available, all with on-screen lyrics for you to sing along to.
Grab a hairbrush as your microphone, do some vocal warm-ups, and spend the night serenading each other with romantic hits or sharing duets.
6. Cook together.
Making dinner can sometimes feel like a chore, but on a date night at home, it turns into a couples’ activity and becomes a lot more fun.
It doesn’t matter how good you are in the kitchen, anyone can follow a recipe. Choose a cuisine you don’t normally cook (but enjoy eating) and try making a restaurant favorite yourself.
Creating a delicious dish and then eating it can be incredibly bonding and make for unforgettable nights.
7. Bake together.
Perhaps you keep the main course simple and save the culinary adventure for dessert.
Whether it’s a classic apple pie, heavenly chocolate brownies, or a more unusual pudding, you can not only get a little dirty making it, but you can feed each other spoonfuls once done.
8. Have a tasting night.
Sticking with the food and drink theme, you could buy in a range of one particular item and taste test the lot.
Wine and cheese are the obvious candidates (and they go well together), but you could do the same with cured meats, other drinks, or even sweet treats like chocolate.
It’s a lovely and indulgent way to spend an evening with your partner.
9. Shake and stir up some cocktails.
Is there anything to get that Friday night feeling (or that vacation feeling) going more than a delicious cocktail?
But if you can’t head out for one, you could try mixing your own at home.
Simply get a few of your favorite spirits or liqueurs along with a range of mixers and try some classic recipes from a cosmopolitan to a long island iced tea.
If you don’t drink alcohol, there are loads of tasty mocktails too.
10. Play with your kids’ toys.
If you have children, you have toys – and no doubt plenty of them.
It doesn’t matter how old you are, you’re never too old to enjoy some of the family classics.
Build something out of Lego, race Scalextric, or try two-person Twister!
Let the children inside of you out and smiles and laughs are guaranteed.
11. Give each other massages.
Life is often stressful and this can take its toll on our bodies.
So why not help each other relax by taking turns to give and receive a massage?
Get some proper oils, light a few scented candles, and spend a good while working the knots from each other’s muscles.
Massages are also very sensual and… you know… one thing can lead to another if you want it to.
12. Camp out in your backyard.
Sleeping outside is an adventure, no matter where you pitch your tent.
If you can’t get away into nature, don’t be afraid to make use of your own garden (if you have one).
Assuming you live in a relatively peaceful neighborhood, you can snuggle up and keep each other warm whilst escaping the usual routine.
A small bonfire and s’mores will really add to the fun.