8 signs you're not on the same page as your partner (and how to get on the same page)

1. You have different expectations.

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2. Your goals are no longer in alignment.

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3. You’ve developed different values.

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4. Your lifestyle choices are no longer compatible.

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5. Your views on family have changed.

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6. Your love languages are too different.

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swipe up to discover 2 more signs and 5 things you can do about it

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