8 Psychological Reasons Why Some Parents Resent Their Grown Children

by Jack Nollan Read more

The parent may resent their adult child's autonomy and independence, or lack thereof.

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The parent may resent their adult child's success or lack of success.

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Parent and child may have different beliefs, opinions, and values.

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The parent may feel they deserve to be treated with greater respect.

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The adult child may be controlling or over-critical.

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The parent may believe they have been abandoned or neglected by their adult child.

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Other relationships may interfere with the parent-child relationship.

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The parent may feel entitled to repayment for their sacrifices.

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swipe up to learn more about each of these reasons

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